"God, it seems, is never in a hurry, while we are always in a hurry."
I like that. It would seem that if we believe this than to wait and to be patient and to not always be in a hurry is divine.
I am not sure I am a very patient person. I do not like to wait. This time of year especially seems to jump up the pace of our lives. So much to do in so little time. We are less than a week now to Christmas. Got to get those cards done for sure. Got to get those last minute gifts. Too little time it seems to get it all done. You have to hurry.
Work is another one that drives me at a frantic pace. I race from the moment I arrive till I walk out the door. Whatever happened to that "lazy B" anyway. I never seem to take time even for lunch. People don't even respect lunch time and schedule meetings through lunch time regularly. Hurry, hurry, hurry. Got to get it all done.
But wait. I need to slow down. I can't take this pace. That is what I love about Advent. Those 4 weeks before Christmas. If we follow the practice of Advent then we should be slowing down and thinking more. Waiting. Good things do take time they say.
Let's not hurry this Christmas. Let's let things slow way down. Let's let Christmas come to us in all its fullness. Let's all practice patience and waiting this Advent season.
Waiting for the fullness
I read a great excerpt from a book by Anne Dillard called the " The Holy Firm" that speaks to the importance of patience and waiting.The story goes that late one evening, alone in her cabin she was watching a month slowly emerge from its cocoon. The process was fascinating but interminably slow. At a point she lost patience and needed to get on to other things, so she picked up a candle and applied a little heat to the process. It worked. The added heat sped up the process and the moth emerged more quickly from its cocoon, but, since a natural process had been interfered with and unnaturally rushed, the moth emerged with ill-formed wings which didn’t allow it to fly properly.
It is so hard to wait. It is so hard to let others we know and love to be fully themselves without selfishness, impatience or unwillingness to violate their reality and natural unfolding. That ability to remain in this tension field is important to maintaining healthly relationships that allow them to reach their full maturity.
Merry Christmas, to you all!
John


